Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #5-7 of the top 10 red flags of a cheater.

#5 Change in work habits
You’ll notice that they will be spending longer hours at work, new projects that may go late into the night. New never heard of before weekend conferences. You may find that when giving the why’s of these new “projects” they are overly detailed accounts. May all of a sudden come home with a new “work only” cell phone that you can’t have access too. Suddenly keeping you away from their work or their office. Not being invited to work functions. With affairs between co-workers fast becoming the most prevalent type of affair.

#6 Privacy
Suddenly taking phone calls privately, staying up late so they can use the computer in private, having their phone on them at all times or locked away in their car. Keeps car locked now when they never did before. They do not answer their cell phone when with you, but let it go to voice mail then pick up the message.

They may ask you about your activities when you’ve been away from home, but they won’t discuss their own, even when asked. They may begin to spend less time with the family and they are away from home more often, they may even refuse to discuss why they are distancing themselves from you or children.

#7 Social Life
They may have a new set of friends that are only theirs and not both of yours. They are going out more without you. They are no longer taking you to social gatherings you both used to attend. Avoiding and trying to get out of outings you both used to go to together like, birthday parties, graduation parties, dancing, school outings, etc.