Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #4 of the top 10 red flags of a cheater.

#4 Change in personal habits
When day-to-day behavior may changes. They may lose interest in work projects at home. If you question their lack of interest in the work projects at home they may become evasive or refuse discuss the details.
They may change their style of dress, more like you would see in single’s bars. They will change the style of their hair to a more “now” look. May even shower more often. You may find they are buying themselves new sexy underwear. Primping when getting ready for work when they never did before. Suddenly wanting to lose weight, joining a gym or getting into fitness at home. Shows sudden interest in different type of music. When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath. When they become suddenly forgetful and you have to tell him/her everything several times; their thoughts are obviously elsewhere. They rush to get the mail before you do. They get a separate P.O. Box with a lame or weird excuse as to why they need it.
You may also notice some things about their vehicle, like when the passenger seat in the car has been changed and is not in the usual position or the mileage on the car is more than usual. Also increased gas purchases that are inconsistent with the amount of miles on the car. When they begin to keep a change of clothes hidden in the trunk of the car or an unusual amount of clothes changes at the gym. Taking child seat out of the car for no particular reason. You can also write down the mileage and see if there is an increase in the mileage that shouldn’t be there.
When they suddenly need a cell phone or pager and you are discouraged from ever looking at it or using it. They also may make certain their cell phone or pager cannot be answered by you by hiding it or taking it with them wherever they go. They are secretive about their cell phone or pager bill and pay it themselves when you have always paid the bill in the past.
Your spouse will spend more time on the computer than with the family. This increased use of the computer may extend late into the night, while you are sleeping. If you look to see what they are doing online, they may use the “quick click,” from one screen to another, to keep you from seeing what websites or chat rooms they are visiting. They end up telling you they need for privacy while online. Sometimes you can tell if your spouse is cheating by reading email messages.

There are ways to spy on the computer your spouse is using. You can do a google search of free key stroke loggers and place one on the computer. This logs every key stroke they make on the computer. This is a good way to get email passwords to email accounts you never knew even existed.

There is also Google Desktop that you can install for free and this helps you search the entire computer and gives you screen shots of places they have been. You can search your computer as easily as you search the web.