Are you getting over an affair you spouse had and you are wondering why you are still in so much pain? Healing from affairs is no easy task and it can takes years before the pain goes away. Most people don’t want to hear that but it’s the truth. It took me four and a half years to be completely healed from my husband’s year long affair. I spent years searching for the answer to how to deal and get rid of my pain.

My husband did everything right and everything I asked him to do, even moving 1,400 miles away but the pain seemed to follow me where ever we went. We moved 3 times and each time was no better than the last time. After 3 years of moving we came back home because I realized that moving away from the other woman was not the answer. Was I any better when we came home? No I was still getting over an affair and I was doing it very badly. I was still in pain, depressed, angry, bitter and resentful and I was starting to hate my husband. This is not what I wanted and I had to find something to make this better. I realized that I was making things much worse and that if I didn’t change soon my husband would most likely leave me.

That is when I decided to start using daily devotions for getting over an affair. I was hurting so badly inside that I needed to get closer to God so that He could fill that void inside of me. Getting into His Word every day and actually working through all my feelings and laying down everything at His feet I started to feel better. I started having good days and soon the good days out numbered the bad days. I started laughing again and I started to enjoy being with my husband again. I was starting to find myself again and I started liking who I was.

Getting over an affair without daily devotions is extremely hard and why would you want it to be any harder? If you want to find yourself again and you want to start feeling good again, I suggest that you find some daily devotions that are for people whose spouse’s have had affairs and start getting into God’s Word every day and start having God lead the way instead of you trying to find your own way.

Do you want your pain and devastation to go away? Are you working on getting over an affair? Then please consider adding daily devotions to your daily routine. Please visit Godly Whispers for great devotions just for the betrayed spouse.

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