Question:

I recently found out that my husband has been having an affair with a woman he works with for the past 2 years. I found out because she called me. He says the affair is over, but I just can’t get over it because he still works with her. How do I get over this and trust him again? I’m in so much pain and I don’t know what to do, please help.

I have found that when the 3rd party calls the betrayed spouse and tells them about the affair it’s in hopes that they will kick the spouse out and divorce them or it’s a revenge tactic because the spouse has ended the affair.

Work or office affairs are the most common types of affairs. At work, people show a side of themselves that does not really represent the whole person. They show the best side of themselves, looking good and acting great. The work place can give off a sense of intensity and importance which can turn it into a sexy place to be. So, this is a very potent atmosphere and I can see why work place affairs are so common.
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