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Due West – When The Smoke Clears

Marsha Rozalski — Mon, 23 May 2011 14:27:06 +0000

Getting Over An Affair – Is The Pain Worth It?

Marsha Rozalski — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 10:00:24 +0000

Did your spouse have an affair and you are now left struggling with getting over an affair? Are you still in a lot of pain and anger over their affair? Recovering from infidelity is not easy and it will take years before you both are healed from this devastation. Most people don’t like hearing that it takes years to heal from infidelity, but it is the truth. It was 4½ years before I could say that I was completely healed. I had spent years looking for answers to getting over an affair and ridding myself of the pain.

My spouse did all the right things and did everything I asked of him, including moving far away but to my surprise this did not help in getting over an affair. No matter how far away we went the pain seemed to follow me. When I finally realized that no matter where we lived, I was going to be in pain, we moved back home. I missed my family and living far away really wasn’t accomplishing anything. Moving home didn’t heal me, as I was still in a lot of pain, I was angry, I was depressed and I was turning bitter and resentful. I was even starting to hate my spouse and I really didn’t want my life to keep going on like this. I knew if I didn’t change we would end up divorced.

I then decided that I need to get serious about getting over an affair before I lost my entire marriage. I decided to use daily devotions to help me with my pain and my wounded spirit. I was in so much pain that I knew I needed a closer relationship with God so that He could fill me with love, comfort and peace and take out all of my anger, resentment, bitterness and pain. I knew that only He could do this because I had been trying to do this myself for years and it was not working. Once I really started getting into His Word and getting closer to Him I noticed that I started having good days again. In fact, I noticed that I was having more good days than bad days.

I started to enjoy being with my spouse and I started to like who I was again. Using daily devotions is a sure fire way of getting over an affair and having a happy marriage again!

Do you want your pain and devastation to go away? Are you working on getting over an affair? Then please consider adding daily devotions to your daily routine. Please visit Godly Whispers for great devotions just for the betrayed spouse.

Getting Over An Affair – Are You Still In Pain?

Marsha Rozalski — Sat, 05 Mar 2011 10:00:49 +0000

Are you getting over an affair you spouse had and you are wondering why you are still in so much pain? Healing from affairs is no easy task and it can takes years before the pain goes away. Most people don’t want to hear that but it’s the truth. It took me four and a half years to be completely healed from my husband’s year long affair. I spent years searching for the answer to how to deal and get rid of my pain.

My husband did everything right and everything I asked him to do, even moving 1,400 miles away but the pain seemed to follow me where ever we went. We moved 3 times and each time was no better than the last time. After 3 years of moving we came back home because I realized that moving away from the other woman was not the answer. Was I any better when we came home? No I was still getting over an affair and I was doing it very badly. I was still in pain, depressed, angry, bitter and resentful and I was starting to hate my husband. This is not what I wanted and I had to find something to make this better. I realized that I was making things much worse and that if I didn’t change soon my husband would most likely leave me.

That is when I decided to start using daily devotions for getting over an affair. I was hurting so badly inside that I needed to get closer to God so that He could fill that void inside of me. Getting into His Word every day and actually working through all my feelings and laying down everything at His feet I started to feel better. I started having good days and soon the good days out numbered the bad days. I started laughing again and I started to enjoy being with my husband again. I was starting to find myself again and I started liking who I was.

Getting over an affair without daily devotions is extremely hard and why would you want it to be any harder? If you want to find yourself again and you want to start feeling good again, I suggest that you find some daily devotions that are for people whose spouse’s have had affairs and start getting into God’s Word every day and start having God lead the way instead of you trying to find your own way.

Infidelity In Marriage

Marsha Rozalski — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 00:30:58 +0000

Infidelity in marriage is the most devastating thing that can ever happen to you. When you first find out that your spouse has cheated on you, your whole world falls apart. It’s very hard to wrap your mind around the fact that your spouse, the one that claims to love you can do such a horrible thing to you. How can the person who vowed to love, honor and cherish you betray you in such a horrible way? When you just find out you are usually in shock and then you spend months unable to think about anything else.

Infidelity in marriage can make your mind very unstable because it’s just about impossible to think about anything other than the affair. It’s just about impossible to get the mental images of them together out of your mind. If your spouse is refusing to give you any details, then these images can actually get much worse. Thinking about your spouse being with another person is the worst form of mental torture anyone can go through. I will say this, when it comes to infidelity in marriage, if you spouse will sit down with you and openly and honestly talk about the affair with you and keep doing this until you don’t need to talk about it anymore will make your healing go much faster. But, if they do tell you the details you can yell, scream and vent your anger all over them or they will shut down and you won’t get anything out of them.

When you are dealing with infidelity in marriage you must remember to never make any decisions right away. I know of many people that just up and left and then later wished they never did. Don’t make any decisions based on emotions. If it takes a year to make up your mind if you are going to leave or not, then so be it. But maybe you are thinking how could I stay after they did such a horrible thing? Many couple’s have recovered from infidelity in marriage and they have even come to be happier after all the hard work of healing.

You can heal from infidelity in marriage thought it’s a long and hard road. I have found that the best way to heal from infidelity in marriage is through daily devotions. Without daily devotions, I would still be in so much pain over my husband’s affair. They can help you heal the pain in your heart and help you find your way back to a healthy and happy marriage.

Do you want your pain and devastation to go away? Do you want to heal from infidelity in marriage? Then please consider adding daily devotions to your daily routine. Please visit Godly Whispers for great devotions just for the betrayed spouse.

Infidelity Forums

Marsha Rozalski — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 00:49:38 +0000

I have decided to start a new Infidelity Forum and I invite you all to come join in. I am hoping we can all give each other some good advice and just help each other because going through a spouse’s affair is the most devastating thing anyone can go through.

Infidelity Recovery Forum

Forgive by Rebecca Lynn Howard

Marsha Rozalski — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 10:00:34 +0000

Just thought I would share this song with those out there healing from affairs.