Question:

#1
I have been having an affair with a married man over the Internet. I never plan to actually meet him but we do talk on the phone. Is this wrong? Would you actually consider this having an affair? I believe it’s all innocent, but I do sometimes have feelings of guilt for talking to him.

#2
I would love your advice if I should go after this relationship I have online. We are both married but I am really starting to fall deeply in love with this other woman. We are both married but she talks so sweetly to me. I am thinking about meeting her, what should I do?

#3
I met this wonderful man online and he only lives minutes from me. We have been talking for quite a while now and just recently he told me that he loves me. He claims that he no longer loves his wife and says he only stays with her because of their son. I too am married, sometimes happily and sometimes not. We plan to meet next week and I am a little nervous because of the intense sexual attraction we have to each other. He says he doesn’t care whether we have sex or not because he respects me, unlike my husband. He sounds and acts like he truly does love me and I am confused at what to do. What do you think?

Online affairs are rapidly spreading and becoming more and more popular. I hear about them all the time and even saw an episode on Dr. Phil about affairs coming out of Facebook. These are VERY dangerous and should never even be played with.

Even if you never meet, online affairs still contain the same thinking patterns and emotions as physical affairs. Online affairs will have a sense of newness and excitement and they will have secrecy and deception.
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