Controlled Separation, is it for you?

Sometimes, even though you know you don’t want to divorce and you know you love your spouse, you just can’t take living with them, seeing them, and being with them every day because the pain is just too much to bear. A controlled separation is not for those who want to divorce, it’s for those who want to save their marriages and they do so by working with a counselor or coach by putting together a separation agreement with very specific guidelines.

Controlled separation will allow you and your spouse to live separately and at the very same time be about to negotiate and work together to find solutions to the marital problems. Not having the spouse who betrayed you, in your face all the time will help and not fighting and being in a state of emotional crisis all the time helps the marriage heal.
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