I believe that the answer is YES it really can BUT it takes a lot of hard work from both spouse’s. There will be healing that needs to be done together along with the healing of each individual. There are steps that can be taken to heal the hurt and pain an affair causes. It can also bring back the intimate connection into your marriage.
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The process may seem to be moving ever so slowly or maybe not at all but just know that as long as your moving in a forward direction from where you are today then your doing just fine. There is no time line as long as you are moving forward and not backward. Just make sure you give yourself plenty of time to process all your emotions before you forgive. If you forgive to quickly, you’ll find that it’s not real genuine forgiveness.
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Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #4 of the top 10 red flags of a cheater.
Reverse Cell Phone Lookup – Proof in Hand!
29 Jan 2010
Should you do a reverse cell phone lookup? Do yo think your spouse is cheating on you? That is the worst feeling in the world, thinking that your spouse could be seeing someone else. In fact, it usually is so traumatic that most of us would rather just believe that our spouse would never do that to us and we believe in anything that proves this. But, if you have a nagging deep in your gut that won’t leave you alone you really should look into it.
I remember looking at our cell phone bills and seeing the same number all the time on it. But I knew this number and knew this woman and she was a friend of ours and I just believed whatever it was that my husband told me. To this day I can’t remember what it was but I would believe anything because I just couldn’t ever fathom that my husband would sleep with someone else. But, what if you looked at your cell phone bill and saw a number on there that was called a lot but didn’t know what it was? You could call it but then you would be setting off alarm bells to the other person and they would tell your spouse and then you would lose the upper hand. So, you need to find out who that number belongs too without anyone knowing that your looking into it. So, the best bet would be to do a reverse cell phone lookup online.
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Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #5-7 of the top 10 red flags of a cheater.
Confronting the Other Person
You are NOT going to want to do this face to face. I do not ever tell anyone to do this face to face. Emotions can really go wild and you will find yourself behaving in ways you wish you never did. It’s better to either write a letter or an email. You only want to say this, “I know that you are having an affair with my husband/wife. I love him/her very much and I want to save my marriage and keep my family together. Your relationship with my husband/wife is NOT okay. This affair is coming in between us and making it impossible to heal our marriage. Please respect our marriage and end all contact with (spouse’s name) forever.
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Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here 1-3 of the top 10 red flags of a cheater.
